Things I need to do

• Live on Marha's Vineyard for a year
• Write a book on the intersection of sprituality, women, and the body
• Write every other day
• Have a great studio in my backyard painted red
• Become licensed as a therapist
• Make a great garden
• Go to a monastery twice a year
• Lose 50 pounds
• Figure out what I like to eat
• Give away lots of money
• Be a part of a women's spirituality group
• Give a sermon
• Play with my grandchildren often
• Kayak weekly
• Collage furniture
• Go to Europe with my girls
• Walk or exercise every day
• Walk a marathon
• Do the three day breast cancer walk
• Pray without ceasing
• Have a drop-in healing center with prayer and art and lots of treats
• Live in community
• Be great friends with both of my girls
• Give great care to my parents as they grow old
• Be thankful for all my many blessings
• Throw stuff out
• Learn how to make stuffing like my Mom
• Hear my parents' stories-- the real stories
• Learn to really bake a great chocolate cake
• Make great coffee every morning
• To have a wonderful cottage
• To swim most days
• To learn to dance
• To write a novel
• To write a children;s book about God
• To learn to offer healing bodywork
• To tell the truth
• To spend a month with Bob on island
• To have a house in the country near water
• To buy a white sofa
• Forgive people who make my angry
• To learn to listen to the other side
• To let my guard down
• To cross out the word He in my bible
• To get a Ph, D,
• To become more politically active
• To live on less money
• To give away something I really care about
• To love with abandon
• To be a great friend
• Learn to knit and make a great sweater
• To light candles every night
• To read great works of literature
• To have dreads
• To write letters to the editor
• To get really angry
• To fall apart and stay in bed
• To have sex every night for a month
• Conserve energy
• Ride my bike to the coffe shop
• Write poetry
• Be more honest with my children
• To quit caring what other people think
• To stay off the internet for a month
• To spend only 30 minutes a day online
• To have a pet
• Throw out the TV
• Travel with Mary to Latin America
• Let Katie teach me to cook
• To attend a high school reunon
• To spend a week with Jane at a spa
• To get to know my brother better
• To be a minister
• To feel  really safe
• To cry easily
• To organize all my photos
• To visit Italy
• To paint
• Only have 5 outfits
• To learn to make earings
• To create a sanctuay in my home
• To live iin the same house for 20 years
• To mediate often
• Visit the graves of my deceased relatives
• Say no
• Say yes
• Say maybe
• Paint my house a funky color
• To drive an old VW bus
• To learn to drive a stick
• Take a pottery class
• To visit lots of different houses of worhip
• To visit the doctor once a year
• Invite people to dinner often
• Have lots of family gatherings
• Play
• Go to the park a couple times a week
• Visit Goddess sites
• Go on a pigrimage